She hasn't been with the OM in two weeks and yet you don't talk to her and yet you are in the same house together. Have you ever thought that this was her way of initiating contact with you again?
Are you trying to save your M or not? It sounds like you're waiting for her to fall on her knees and beg you back. You can't just "expect" things to get better unless you actually start opening some doors.
"MrBond, what do you mean by 'together on your own'? Little confused.."
By just the two of you together.
"We live together. She has a job now. She does her own thing and I do mine. I don't touch her, I don't call her, I don't message her unless its about our D."
Why not?
"I have tried to be as separated as possible."
Why?
"I was going to suggest we live separately soon,"
Why?
"Anyway, I try to spend as much time away from w as possible. I sit physically apart from her when watching tv."
Why? You could actually try something small to see how she responds. I don't get what you're trying to do.
"In fact I try to imply that I'm moving on whenever i have the chance."
Why?
"But a vacatuon together? What, would we get two hotel rooms? We haven't slept I in the same room in a year."
So? This could be a positive start. Right now you're letting your pride get in the way. If you don't plan to start having ANY positive interactions with her, why don't you go ahead and file already?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
