Be careful with the typing. Do NOT let her know about this site. And do NOT give the impression you are talking to the ladies. When I started on this site, I did similar. But I wasn't as careful. Years later, she tried to accuse me of having an affair because of it. They are hyper-sensitive to what you are doing. Watching you like a hawk and projecting what they can. Don't give her the ammo. ( I work in the tech industry; I know how to lock my phone when I want to, but she went through it anyway. Nothing to see really. Go figure...)
As for the job, funny that isn't it? She thinks that this about her? And about you manipulating her to save the marriage. How dare you? LOL. Don't sweat that part of it. But be cautious of the changes while this is going on. You have a lot on your plate and more change can be a lot to handle. If it's really going to be better for you and the boys in the long run, then it's not a difficult decision. But if it's going to put more stress on you be careful of the decision. Lots of prayer and discernment on this one, my friend.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
