MrBond, what do you mean by 'together on your own'? Little confused..

We live together. She has a job now. She does her own thing and I do mine. I don't touch her, I don't call her, I don't message her unless its about our D.

I have tried to be as separated as possible.

I was going to suggest we live separately soon, then we had a diagnoses for my D of Sensory Processing Disorder and the therapist and school teacher advised me to not disrupt her life as much as is possible.

I know it wouldn't be me disrupting it technically, its just a consequence of my wifes decisions, but I can't bring myself to initiate something that will hurt my daughter.

Anyway, I try to spend as much time away from w as possible. I sit physically apart from her when watching tv. I never mention anything about our future or any plans etc..

In fact I try to imply that I'm moving on whenever i have the chance.

But a vacatuon together? What, would we get two hotel rooms? We haven't slept I in the same room in a year.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017