Try not to get drawn into the conversations too much. They can change their minds at warp speed right now. My H constantly speaks of our future together and my life on my own all in one breath. I actually told him to stop making plans that involved us.
Decide what you want to do. If you say you need time as well, then time it is. The time and space we allot for the WAS is for the LBS as well. One day,you will find you are breathing again.