I'm not afraid to take a stand.......

[Whiterose]

I'm gonna play the nasty H in this process so you can be prepared, if you do elect to proceed with the meeting.

Wow Wonka. This is just......wow. I know I need to be prepared for this but I don't think someone can ever really be......

WR, I want this whole thing F-ing done and you're holding this up! You need to understand that I pushed for court because you can't be responsible.

So that I understand, h, you feel that court was your only option because I was too slow to respond to your requests. I'm sorry you feel that this was not moving along at a pace that you anticipated.


I cannot afford to keep paying a lawyer. I feel that you're dragging this all out. Let's get this all done and over with today/tonight.

I agree lawyers can be costly. I am open to hearing your thoughts on the division of assets.

The fair value of the house is $000,000. I want the house to be put on sale as soon as possible. What's holding you up?

I feel that you are saying I'm holding up the refinancing of the house. My lawyer, when she sent your lawyer my financials, mentioned in her letter that the bank is waiting on the signed separation agreement listing the amount of child support and spousal before I can secure a loan.

You f-ing got the kids involved in the house stuff! It is dead wrong and it shows that you're not a good mother!

I can understand how you would feel like that is what I've done. I would like to assure you this was not the case. I talked to teachers, psychologist, Dr L and have done online research. All felt that one of the stressors for children is the lack of control they feel over the situation. Allowing them to have a voice in the decisions of what can leave allows them to feel like they have a voice. It also allows for an opportunity for the children to express feelings and a chance for open dialogue.

I want the china cabinet, socks, shirts, my tool set, etc. etc. I want them by tomorrow!
I have given you all of your personal affects. Once I've received the back child support and the money from the medical cheque, given to you in error, I will talk with the boys and get back to you with a list of items for you to review. We may need you to return some of the tools to offset the value of some of the furniture.

I've been trying to get information from S19 and S14...and I feel that you are interfering with them! They must respond back to me. How hard is that?

The boys each have their own phones and email addresses. This is a conversation you will need to have with the

Now...about that Christmas list. Are you going to tell me or will you be uncooperative as usual?
I can understand why you would feel I'm being uncooperative, given my past actions, but the boys will be responsible for giving you their own list. I've asked them to keep it different from my list to avoid any duplicates

I've been supporting you and sons all of my life. Enough is enough! I will only pay so much in child support. It is my money too and you're not getting any of it!

Child support is a fixed number determined by the government. I am not able to change these numbers.

Court and lawyers are up to no good and too time consuming. Can't we do this ourselves like adults?

I'm open to discussions to help resolve this as easily as possible. I will not be making any firm decisions tonight but will let you know once I've had a chance to review our conversation.

How'd I do????????????