Reading your recent posts its hard to remember the days when you bemoaned the lack of activity from SO, yes?
You are far from a consolation prize my dear. Goodness what an idea! You are Blue Ribbon all the way.
Be confident in the boundaries you have set. SO can choose to respect them or leave you alone. He does have to stare at his reflection, as they all do I think. And who knows how it will all play out in the end... It doesn't matter as much as your own health. I'm happy to hear you sounding stronger.
Take good care.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
I'm happy to hear you sounding stronger.