Seperation VS Divorce

[peaceSJ]

Hi, I hope everyone here had a great thanksgiving. I did

Without H at home, everthing was very peaceful. I baked turkey and invited some friends to come over. I also took the kids to parks and birthday parties. They had good time. My older kid even said "let's have much more fun without daddy."
But they still miss their dad very much. Husband didn't even give them a call untill Monday night which was one week later after he left. And he only talked to my older son for two minutes. I guess H didn't want the kids to keep asking him where he is. But the kids beleived that dad is on business trip.

I still don't understand how come H would like to stay with the OW during this very important holiday times rather than with his two lovely kids. But I do feel I enjoy the peaceful time without him.