It's only fear that makes you run

[Whiterose]

Thank you.
Wonka the last text was to me, from H, his last statement was "I can do this without a lawyer if you can be fair". I've not said anything in regards to lawyers through the entire process. I only retained a lawyer once he served me and I had no choice.

I thought maybe to hear him out but I would NEVER sign papers without first showing them to my lawyer. I may not involve her in the discussions with h but she sure will be involved in the final response. I, also, just learned even just to file separation papers is $1000 and I cannot take over the mortgage until that is figured out and signed on the dotted line.

I think the thought of a judge is looming.....do we cancel the court date and see if we can do it ourselves and then set up another date if we can't? I can approach him about child support and if that fails see what my lawyer says about setting up temporary court ordered support. Does h honestly think this will be figured out in two hours????