Oh I should clarify. That last sentence was his response to me saying the line above (ending with "initiated")
My lawyer, when she presented his lawyer with my financials, did say I could purchase the house once my separation agreement was signed with me receiving so much in child support and so much in spousal.......there has been no response from his lawyer since then. A month ago. Then my lawyer sent the email, and a phone call, a week ago today, saying when can we expect child support. No response.
Our meeting with the judge, it's non-binding but things like child support which he has signed off on,, and filed with the courts, can be enforced as he's already agreed to them....in writing and filed.
I have only responded twice to him. Both times letting him know it's his decision as he initiated. Full stop. He needs cash. He has no furniture, as far as understand but could be wrong. It's getting cold out and getting colder in the next couple of weeks. S14 has not given a list of Christmas gifts yet and I did not bite Sunday when he was fishing for ideas, or whatever he was fishing for, and the court date is next Friday.
His response to my first text was quite angry and accusatory. I wonder if he can actually be rational in such a state? I'm thinking he's wanting us to sit down and hash this out over coffee.......it's the feeling get from him.
Do I say I'm willing to do this if I start seeing child support and back child support as well as the outstanding cheque? Ugggggg. Why can't he just say let's stop for Christmas??!?! I know. I know. But I can have a Christmas wish can't I?
M 16 T 20 M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15 Bomb drop April 4; Moved out April 13 D started-full force ----------------------- Dancing through the fire Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me ROAR
