Well I feel like I am drifting around in the horse latitudes. There has been a whole lot of nothing going on. I am a little confused about where to go from here on this forum. Since neither one of us has officially left our house we are just going on day by day. Except for the physical intimacy we are pretty normal. I did ask her if she wanted to have casual uncommitted sex the other night. I thought that it was appropriate since neither one of us could sleep. Why not past the time with some sex so I texted her while she was downstairs watching TV. She never responded so I guess her answer was no! I never asked her. My wife seems more like a midlife crises than a walk away spouse. She and we never discuss us, our relationship and our future other than what we need to do together. Since there is no intimacy I feel like I am just waiting for the day when she blows up again. 1)Should I just leave everything alone and keep working on me? My wife is the type of person that will hold things in and say nothing until some catalyst causes an explosion later. I watch that happen between her parents and brother from time to time so I know that it is in her to act that way. 2)Should I start posting in another area like sex starved marriage or Midlife crises to get some feedback? Help!!!
Wife emotionally checked out 2 years ago ILYBNLWY 2/1/2013 M-48, W-40 D-9 Living together in separation for daughter
