Within the first few weeks of our break up while still in the stage where I was begging & pleading I had suggested to my wife that we went out together with our son & she said quite sternly "We are not going on any family days out".

Last month on bonfire night I suggested us all going together to see the fireworks and she said she didn't want that. She actually attended the same event and I found it strange that we couldn't even stand together.

There is a 'Santa express miniature train ride" that we talked about doing last year when our son was younger which we didn't go on. I was thinking of taking my son this year and was considering asking my wife if she might be interested in us all going together one day.

Would this be a mistake?


Me: 34, Wife: 34
Son: 2
Married: 8, Together: 14
Wife moved out 8/25/2013
Divorce papers received 01/10/2014