That sounds like a big decision J. Do you mean the new job you are contemplating will take you away from your family more? If so, it might be hard on your boys, with your W so distant. I'm glad she tucked them into bed when you konked out during Monday night football. It's pretty funny how she tracked your progress around the game, talking to different people. They like to pretend that they aren't paying any attention to us, but I've noticed my husband covertly watching me at times.
I'll say a prayer for guidance for you to make the right decision. I have always felt that when you make a decision, and feel relieved and happy, it was the right one!
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17