So you need to get off the rollercoaster. They will say one thing then immediately change their mind.
They will forget they said x and say y instead.
This is perfectly script. The challenge is for you to become the best Fritz possible. GAL, 180.
Make us a list of things to improve about you
Thanks for the reply kate. I realize that I have to become the best guy possible. I'm still slightly in the denial/shock phase so it all needs to start with me getting my head straight. I need to accept that my marriage is over and that it was not my choice. I need to play the hand I was dealt. Speand time without my wife. GAL which will include spending more 1 on 1 time with my son, going to the gym 3 mornings a week, making plans with friends and family on the weekends to get out of the house. I need to get off of the rollercoaster and keep my mood happy regardless of her ups and downs. Let her walk away and don't question where she is or what she is doing or how she is feeling. The list could go on and on but that is my start, I have to try to stick to these things and take it one day at a time
Me 37 W 33 son 3 T 4 years M 1.5 years BD 11/14 - W wants a divorce 11/17-current W wants a separation currently living together
"The slightest bit of light, and I can see you clear" -Eddie Vedder
