Thanks PM, tiger, and RosaL...on the comments concerning my parents, etc.

I have told my parents, repeatedly, about MLC...sent them some links to read, etc. They "don't buy it" and don't understand why I keep "making excuses" for him. Ugh.
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VENTING!!!!!
So, my dad shows up at my job today with a sheepish look and four new tires. Said that he and my mom are just very concerned about their grandkids with those tired (the tires are almost completely bald...no tread...chunks missing...and a winter storm is headed our way this week....I can totally understand why they were worried.) BUT now H is mad!

I don't lie or hide stuff so I went ahead and texted H and let him know that I did get new tires. I told him that it wasn't meant as disrespect toward him. That my parents were just trying to be kind.

Doesn't matter. He is spewing mad.

Then, his sister and mom texted me about some stuff H had texted them today....and everything he texted them about my family and about Thanksgiving were TOTAL lies.

So, I let them both know that he is lying and his sister got mad at me for calling him a liar. UGH. I just want to go hide in a cave and be away from ALL of them. My family.....his family....him.

Just me and my kids on a deserted island somewhere.