It's only fear that makes you run

[RosaLinda]

Ha Rosa, it's a bit late for H to be wanting to avoid paying lawyers' fees. Wonka is right about the court costs - plenty! And I wonder if H realizes that a judge will order him to pay child support? Back child support too.

When H says that you involved the kids when you talked about items from the home, does he mean items the kids would be using, like beds and living room furniture? Is that the sort of stuff he wants to take from your home?