I am sorry you find yourself in this situation. Please be sure you are working with a pro marriage counselor. You don't want someone that is going to tell you to go your own way, but someone that is going to help you come up with solutions to your issues and helps you both have empathy for what each of you are going through. Many individuals work with a DB coach that helps guide them on what they should be saying and doing (even in joint counseling sessions). I wish you the best.
Karen, Resource Coordinator The Divorce Busting Center 303-444-7004 karen@divorcebusting.com
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