You cant change for her. What specific 180's are you doing? Im assuming you have already read Sandis rules? You may want to post this in the newbie section as you will get alot more looks (just cut and paste). KEEP POSTING!
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13