I did put cash in the package too. One of her fears is being without cash in a bad spot. I did this because I love her and care. I also don't know what's on her card. Could be a thank you from her as well.
She is having lunch with the family friend who knows all about this. So that may not be a bad thing. But she has said the longer you wait the worst of will get. That seems loaded...
Idk. Trying to gather thoughts and feelings, stay calm and collected.
I want her to talk first and I listen. Then say what else I need to when she is done. Even if she says it's over. Done. And/or there's OM. Let her talk.
I plan to say, with a few points in between but basically, I still believe in us and our marriage, I'm standing for I believe in, and if she is sure this is what she wants then I want her to have it.
