So glad you were finally able to get the alimony stopped, although sorry it cost so much in legal fees to do so.

I'm surprised your teenage son hasn't come to live with you by now, and so sorry to hear about your daughter's depression. My kids also have suffered from serious depressions and mental issues, and although I don't think the divorce was the cause, I always wonder how much healthier they might be if they hadn't gone through the divorce.