I need to figure out what is setting her off. Should I just ask politely? It seems to be my presents. I feel that she is making it so uncomfortable that I would not visit the children, then I would be out of her life completely.
I know you need to have the most positive environment for the kids... But you can't mind read that she's trying to make it so uncomfortable to push you out. That sounds like a fear manifesting. Keep you chin up, head held high, and a smile on your face. All ice eventually melts when greeted with warmth my friend.
Originally Posted By: Positivespin
...honesty and openness is key here (many of my posts are embarrassing) every once in a while I need to read a newby thread to appreciate how far ive come.
^^^ Amen Spin. I see so much of myself in newbie threads. I even go back and ready my own from the beginning. Wowza! I think even now, we all have common emotions and feelings. We're just not in a place of shock any more so we can be more methodical in our thinking. Plus... we've learned how much we really have of the "Gift of Time" that Cadet greets most of us with when we first login.
Me(F):40 WAW:44 T:13yrs M:9yrs BD:2/12 (I saw a text) ILYBINILWY: 5/12 PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11) S:2/13 Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13 W moves home to R: 10/13
