So I was taught two valuable things while on my boatride.
1. I must now refer to my W as my "X" 2. Whenever sharing any past experiences that I may have enjoyed with my wife I need to say "I" not "WE"
1. I can't do that until it's final. I did stop calling her my W (outside of here) a long time ago, though. It's usually her given name or "STBX." 2. That's going to take some work.
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My X never took my last name- Foreshadowing perhaps????
My STBX sprung it on me last minute that she wanted to hyphenate her name. I guess I should have known then. I have friends where both the groom and bridge hyphenated their names, it's becoming more popular. I was like, what's going to happen when their kids get married? Mr & Mrs Lastname1-Lastname2-Lastname3-Lastname4?
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Furthermore- Your age and no kids......someone awesome is going to gobble you up. My not willing to accept a blended family (D3.90 MUST be my #1 priority)is going to make it alot more challenging (unless they are from a foreign country) VERY few women who dont already have kids want to be a stepmom.
Eh, I hope so. I figure all the awesome ones are already taken.
