Wife says she wants to leave

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I think I can relate to cc position on whether he can look passed an A.

When we have never faced one, we say it would be impossible...

When we are forced to face one, we are not sure...

Really there is probably no way to know for sure, until we have a spouse who wants to reconcile, and we can SEE and FEEL what forgiveness will look like. Until then we can only try to imagine.

Its hard to rule out your ability to forgive without actually being in a position where it actually matters and would dictat if there is a marriage or not.

Cc just wants to get another chance. Then he can see if its possible. Right now he is not closing any doors and I think that is wise because we don't know how much growth our cheating spouses may have in the future.