The only alarming thing of the night was I walked past the bathroom and he had his phone plugged in to charge and his jacket was in there and he like stuffed his phone on the hood of the jacket and walked out. Really felt like he didn't want me to see his phone. Whether I'm jumping to conclusions or not it was a yucky feeling and I can't get it out of my head.
Well, for one, you're trying to interpret everything he does, again.
At the same time, it doesn't surprise me at all; as you know, I've suspected that there may be an OW.
I would not worry about it until you are ready to confront him about it and deal with the consequences. He will almost certainly lie about it; he'll tell you you're crazy or jealous, and he'll probably threaten to leave you. There's no reason to deal with that until a) you are sure that there is something going on, and b) you are ready to accept the results of such a confrontation.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement