WR, Stay positive. Hopefully work will pick up for you. The Christmas "bug" hasn't really hit people yet, but it will now that the Christmas shows are being televised.
Maybe having a few days off is what you need to re-energize. I know you were looking to make the money...but maybe God has another plan for you during that time.
I hope that his lawyer can track him down. That's the hard part, i.e., tracking him down and getting him in the office to discuss why he's not done what needs to be done in the way of support.
Stay positive. I know it's difficult, but I'm in your corner praying for you and your family.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Do you think it's possible to deal with everything outside of court or would you prefer to sit with a judge?
I really want to say "it was never my idea!!!!" Now what?
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I want to add that court time and costs are a bit of an annoyance. The judge can rule either way. It isn't always a clear cut that he'll rule in your favor. Which is why sometimes going the mediation route oftentimes will get you want you ask for with lawyers hammering out the details.
I'm curious to hear what H has to say in response to your reply.
It would be a 180 of me I always make the decisions. He wanted me to and I liked being the boss, a reason he left, I'm concerned as to the WHY.
M 16 T 20 M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15 Bomb drop April 4; Moved out April 13 D started-full force ----------------------- Dancing through the fire Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me ROAR
I pushed for court because you seemed unwilling to deal with this and make the appropriate decisions You asked me in August what I would agree to as a Fair value for the home. And still nothing has happened when we talk about items from the home you involved the kids which is not appropriate either. But if we can make some decisions we can avoid paying lawyer fees
Ohhhhh he makes me angry!!!
M 16 T 20 M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15 Bomb drop April 4; Moved out April 13 D started-full force ----------------------- Dancing through the fire Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me ROAR
One can get interesting pieces of information if asked in a neutral way, WR. H's response doesn't surprise me at all and I expected he'd do this in making it all about you. Which, as you know, it isn't at all. He's just mad that the process isn't moving as quickly as he'd like nor is he getting his way as he thought he would. Silly man!
I'm going to hand this off to Job who may be able to offer some insights as to the best possible next step in response to H's latest text since she's dealt with this type of thing with her XH. Job will come around here soon enough. Hang in there!
Be careful with the anger, WR. That makes you easily manipulated if you're not careful.
"seemed unwilling" ? Interesting that he thinks that. What? You don't want this divorce?!??
Looks like he'll have to make decisions. I say let him...
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
Hang in there!