I wish that I could say that it was. But at ths point I'm not sure.
Don't wish for it to be one way or the other, this is the big question for you right now. Now that you'e NC, you have time to really dig deep and see what you want, what's best for you and maybe her, also.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss