Wife says she wants to leave

[labug]

And all the stuff about being an alpha male, more assertive, etc., the easy answer, be an equal partner in your marriage and probably your life.

Stand up, be counted, have a voice, an opinion. Doesn't mean you have to be an a--hole, just be a strong person who is able to express himself in a R.

Marriage is supposed to be interdependent, not codependent.

Perhaps you haven't kept up on your end of the bargain.