Can you find something to do with the kids so that you're not there when he gets home? If not, then try finding something to do with them--rent some movies to watch. Let him go as he pleases. And DO NOT talk about your relationship, no matter how much he tries to bait you.
He was home with the kids before me but after school I had to go get gas. I walked in the door and he seemed to be in a normal mood. And within 3 minutes asked me where I went after school? All I did was get gas so it wasn't like I was an hour late. It was like 10 minutes. Had I asked HIM that???!!! Bombs would have dropped?!
Originally Posted By: TrentC
If he tries, tell him you don't want to talk about it right now. If he threatens to leave, tell him that you can't stop him. (Which is essentially true.) He may try the "poor me" trick and whine about the fact that he's a lousy husband; tell him that you are sorry he feels that way, and you know that he is capable of being the man he wants to be.
None of this happened tonight thank goodness. I was not ready for more of this type of conversation. He did end up leaving most of the night to go Xmas light shopping and take my middle boy to the doctor. By the time he got back we put kids to bed and he went out to put lights up and shovel snow. So in the end we still didn't have time together. I'm starting to wonder of he does this on purpose.
The only alarming thing of the night was I walked past the bathroom and he had his phone plugged in to charge and his jacket was in there and he like stuffed his phone on the hood of the jacket and walked out. Really felt like he didn't want me to see his phone. Whether I'm jumping to conclusions or not it was a yucky feeling and I can't get it out of my head.
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14
