I was never in piecing but I think he may have asked for financial reasons that you get a job. If he was thinking of D, he would have to pay less in child support and alimony. That's my thinking.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”