Ambivalent, Of course some of those stay at home moms/wives and their MLCing spouses reconcile. You have to remember MLC is not about you and what you are doing, but about him and what he needs to get through his crisis. You could be a knockout model and very wealthy and he would still be out there having a crisis. You could be Betty Crocker and June Cleaver all rolled up into one and he would still have a crisis. If he didn't have the crisis while married to you, he would have had it while being involved w/someone else. He could also have been a monk and still had a crisis. The crisis is all about him and issues that need to be resolved from his past. You didn't break him, therefore you can't fix him.
As for stay at home moms and wives, we have had some reconcile. In fact, you've been posting to one that has remained here while reconciling and she's done an excellent job of sharing her journey and that is reaching higher.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
