One thing that she said to me last night, she asked if I had spoken to a lawyer yet. I said no why would I. Then she went on to tell me that she doesn't care to get divorced, that it is too much of a hassle. I just responded by saying then what are our options, live together in misery or separate? She said she'd prefer to separate but wasn't sure what I wanted. I said that I thought I made myself clear when we talked 2 weeks ago? And she said that she hasn't ruled out us staying together.

It's things like this that drive me crazy! She seems to be saying this exact same thing on a daily basis. I don't take the bait but feel like she wants to talk about it, wants me to beg. I don't know, I just find this to be the hardest part for me lately.

Me 37
W 33
son 3
T 4 years
M 1.5 years
BD 11/14 - W wants a divorce
11/17-current W wants a separation
currently living together

"The slightest bit of light, and I can see you clear" -Eddie Vedder