I think I can stop this.... can you help me?

[Fitz]

I admit that I have snooped and I know I need to stop that. When this all started I thought in my head that the only reason we could possibly be going through this was because there was an OM, so I looked for evidence. I found none and realized it was all happening because of the day to day problems we were having.

I have cut out the snooping lately. But I will come home and see that she has divorce papers, or notes from talking with a divorce lawyer, sitting right on the desk. It's almost as if she wants me to see them. If that is the case then I find that rather cruel on her part to rub my face in it.

I have been trying my best to detach. Most days I feel as though I am doing a good job. But then I feel like she starts to pursue me. She will email me random things daily, and her emails always start with "hey babe". She will question everything that I do. She will cook dinner (which she has never done) and insist that we eat together. Must just be part of the cat and mouse game to make sure that she is keeping me interested just in case.