Sending hugs CC. My H didn't spend his birthday with us either, I know how much that hurts. Why in the world do they want to spend their birthday with a random tart they met a couple of months ago (A MONTH in my H's case) than with their kids? (Insanity is the answer).
job and labug have good advice for you. Especially since he already seemed to be sensitive to the idea that you were upset. Although I do wonder if he was just worried about you being upset because it's his birthday and he is off being a jerk... he may not realize you heard anything yet either. Keeping it short and to the point is a good way to bring it up either way.
me-35 WAS-37 T-16 1/2 Son-14 (HF Aspergers) BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013 "Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."
