I am still on moderation so this might not come up for a bit, but I want to say I have been following your thread for months. I have been unsure about posting because I am "boyfriend busting", and am not married so I didn't know if my stuff applies. I do know that aside from the married and baby part, our sitch's are very similar. I have two kids from a previous marriage, and it was my idea for splitting up with my BF. And I regret it and have been DBing ever since. I also saw similarities in them constantly working and being neglectful to family stuff/support.
I just wanted to stop by and say that you have been an inspiration to me. You are so smart and strong. Much stronger than I...because I can't even handle my time of the month during this difficult time, and you have had a baby! Unbelievable. and from your position here, I truly feel that your H has to know how lucky he is to have you and that is what keeps him around.
I hope for you that you things work out...and that you will know it is all because of YOU! You are awesome! Don't give up. And thank you for sharing your story here. It's helping more people than you may know.
Me:35 BF:36 Together 4.5 years lived together 2 years moved out 8-13 still "together" but not together. Confused. D11, D13 (from 1st marriage)
