Also, just occurred to me. Did you H previously distance from your son? Maybe H spending so much time with son is their "reconnecting" ... hasn't job or someone mentioned that they will reconnect with friends and children, and the spouse is last?
Something to think about.
me-35 WAS-37 T-16 1/2 Son-14 (HF Aspergers) BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013 "Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."
