I remember a thread posted as fast train to divorceville or something like that. Goes to show you that you're not alone. And yes it can be this fast.
Fitz, remember, this is her journey. Allow her to continue on her journey. If this is the path she wants to take then move aside. DB is about you working on yourself so that you can be a better partner, father, son, etc.
Take care of yourself and if you are, DON'T SNOOP!!
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017