I have read some but things have been hectic for me and I have been lost for a few days.
Some of this was posted on another forum but then I found this one.
I haven't been there for her emotionally. Our communication was suffering, wasn't as affectionate, I was complaining a lot about other things, people, work and that was majority of our talk before she left. I wasn't listening to all her needs and wants. I was stressed and tired. Lack of balance between work, personal and marriage time. We didn't go in dates much, so on.
This has happened before and we would talk and things would be better fir awhile. I'd fall back on bad behaviors. This happened a few times in our marriage.