Yea, I got bugs crawling all through my computers. I'm afraid I'm going to be forced to scrub at least one hard drive.
So far, things are going well between H and me.
The other night, I asked him a series of related questions. One of them was about whether he was still infactuated with OW or not. He said ,"No, not at all", and that he only talks to her when he has to confer on a case, and that it's strictly business. I was comfortable asking questions and he was comfortable answering them. There was a nice easy flow throughout the conversation.
Also, recently, my H approached me to say that he wants to get a tattoo of my likeness on his leg. Being that this is going to be a permenant fixture on his body, I'd say that speaks volumes.
He also said to me, out of the blue, "You are my best friend".