Okay ... while h was home, I told him that I thought the business over there was his real mistress and that all the other stuff was his way of fulfilling needs that the business couldn't. I didn't think it got through to him, but ...
In a conversation with BIL he said I was right. He told him (and he had said to me) that if he had known where this road would take him that he never would have gone there. He said that he has destroyed his marriage and regretted it.
At least I know I got through to him. But, my question is ... Is this something that I should find encouraging? That he is at least thinking logically somewhere in that fog?
He did say when I was driving him to the airport that he didn't want to go back ... that on last trips he couldn't wait to get out of here, but this time he didn't want to leave.
Am I latching on to false hope? I thought what he said was just to placate me, keep control, and further his goals. Is opening up to BIL, whom he has never been that close to, a good sign?
Am I being too optimistic?
Me: 59 and holding H: :53 Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown M: 19 T: 23 BD: 9-23-2013
