3 - I flirted with my W like crazy even before I knew that OM was a big ugly dork. However, I was very selective and only referred to stuff that was like an inside joke because I knew she'd remember it, and most of the time it worked.
But just as important: I also wore the pants that she said were crazy sexy, wore the blue shirt she got me that she said made my eyes so blue it made her weak at the knees, got skinny, got a great haircut, etc.
