"I am trying to understand and be empathetic to what you are going through. But I have boundaries and I will not go through "that" again. (She understood. No need to re-hash)
I had IC today and we were covering how my communication with H has changed, I don't take things personally, I don't cut him off at the knees or steamroll him, etc. But the best thing is how much more self-confident and in control of me I feel. It's amazing. I agree, Hallelujah!
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss