Wish I could put neon lights around this and make it a sticky, this IS the key!
The fastest way off the rollercoaster (not out of my marriage... but to calm myself) was simply not riding anymore. I got off. I stopped asking myself what my W wanted and started asking myself what I wanted. I stopped trying to decipher her motives and means.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss