But I tell ya this seesaw effect is crazy. Go forward, go in reverse, then forward again. Attempting to see some pattern to something I may be doing but at this point I can't put my finger on anything
It's not really unusual. There's a couple of things in play here...one is the push/pull effect. You become distant, she chases...you chase, she pulls away.
But you've also got OM in play, so you've got that push/pull affecting your interactions as well.
Why are you suggesting you get together?
Originally Posted By: Breakdown
What you can do is give her space and time and focus on your stuff. So what are the things you want to work on? What don't you like about your role in the M? Who do you want to be?
