new life part 2

[kelela]

OK I have a question to ask I have not responded back or returned any calls or text from the H lately. I just don't feel like talking or texting him back anymore but I did send one text back to him about two hours later cause I had to remind him that he needs to make sure to pick up my 9y up from school tomorrow for his visit with the boys and that was it that I texted him, my question is this a bad thing on not responding or retuning his calls at all? I'm I finally moving on with my life in a way I feel so much better. Anyway MIL and H sorta got into it again last night cause once again since OW has her son tomorrow night H and the boys have to stay at MIL house instead of his house because she wants to take things slow so her son can get use to his parents split. And I guess when MIL meet OW the OW told my MIL that all three boys will be treated equally in every way but so far she has not kept her word to MIL everything she has shown to MIL was all lies. And MIL can't understand why her son can't be at their place with his boys at the same time she has her son I told her I don't know its none of my businesse how H and OW are living their lives. H had chosen to be with OW and as long as OW doesn't hurt my boys I have no say in anything. One thing about MIL if you tell her something you better make sure you at least keep with what you say you are going to do. so as of right now MIL does not like or care for OW at all. Which in a way I actually feel happy about. Oh I also found out during Thanksgiving at MIL I appeartly have majority of all the in laws on my side they all don't approve on what H is doing to the boys and myself. To he honest this makes me happy I know its not good to feel good about that; that I have his family sorta backing me up more then him. But I have showed and proven to everyone that I can do this on my own even though I'm still struggling at least my bills are all up to date where H is not keeping up with his. Anyway i feel like im starting to be in a little better place now in my life without H at this time. Well I shall stop for now.