I will be spending Thanksgiving dinner with my boys and my MIL before work and couple of other in laws This will be the first year that we are all not spending the holiday together. My BIL and his family went done to my other SIL house down in KY this year; wish I could have gone but I have to work tonight from 7:30pm to midnight and then back in at 7am to 4pm tomorrow. Not looking forward to working but at lease I will get time and a half tonight. Well that's it for right now have a great weekend
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
I did have a wonderful Thanksgiving dinner with my boys and MIL and aunt in law and two of the cousin in laws. And for work wise both days went really fast I couldn't believe how many ppl came out to shop on Thanksgiving night. And we were still Bessy all night long and thru out Friday too. So when I got home last night I went straight to bed. Im so happy that I'm off today. But now my boys and I are going to meet up with step MIL to head to that side of the family Thanksgiving dinner. I did a bad thing last night H had texted me and asked me if I could have the boys write out a Christmas list and let him know what I was planning to get them from their list. and normally I text back and this time I didn't. Anyway I'm not sure if i will be able to get them anything for Christmas this year. I had spoken to them both and told them that I will try my hardest to get them something I just don't have the money since now I have to make sure that we have a place to live and food on the table. And from what H gives me and my paychecks Im just able to keep up with The bills that come up. I don't them as soon as I get a little extra money I'll take them shopping to make up for Christmas if I can't get them anything right now. This makes me feel so bad that I can't even afford to get them presents for Christmas this year. Well I'll stop there for now. Have a great weekend.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
I am glad to see Thanksgiving went well. You'd be surprised at how much kids understand about Christmas. Last year I made it all about the time we spent...Christmas movies, popcorn, getting the tree ( we cut it ourselves, lol, not as easy as it looks lmao), decorated, baked. It was good.
Your kids will remember the time they spend with you, the quality and the memories.
I really hope that my boys will understand you gave me a good idea I may just do the same maybe put in a movie and pop some popcorn and make cookies for Christmas this year. Thank you
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
OK I have a question to ask I have not responded back or returned any calls or text from the H lately. I just don't feel like talking or texting him back anymore but I did send one text back to him about two hours later cause I had to remind him that he needs to make sure to pick up my 9y up from school tomorrow for his visit with the boys and that was it that I texted him, my question is this a bad thing on not responding or retuning his calls at all? I'm I finally moving on with my life in a way I feel so much better. Anyway MIL and H sorta got into it again last night cause once again since OW has her son tomorrow night H and the boys have to stay at MIL house instead of his house because she wants to take things slow so her son can get use to his parents split. And I guess when MIL meet OW the OW told my MIL that all three boys will be treated equally in every way but so far she has not kept her word to MIL everything she has shown to MIL was all lies. And MIL can't understand why her son can't be at their place with his boys at the same time she has her son I told her I don't know its none of my businesse how H and OW are living their lives. H had chosen to be with OW and as long as OW doesn't hurt my boys I have no say in anything. One thing about MIL if you tell her something you better make sure you at least keep with what you say you are going to do. so as of right now MIL does not like or care for OW at all. Which in a way I actually feel happy about. Oh I also found out during Thanksgiving at MIL I appeartly have majority of all the in laws on my side they all don't approve on what H is doing to the boys and myself. To he honest this makes me happy I know its not good to feel good about that; that I have his family sorta backing me up more then him. But I have showed and proven to everyone that I can do this on my own even though I'm still struggling at least my bills are all up to date where H is not keeping up with his. Anyway i feel like im starting to be in a little better place now in my life without H at this time. Well I shall stop for now.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
