I have been unable to post since my return for a variety of reasons.
Computer problems. This site wouldn't let me login. Massive amounts of work.
It was a great vacation (even though my H did grow horns at times). All the same, I think that it was good for both of us.
I'm completely left behind with everybody's situation now and am unable to reply to the thoughtful posts left on my thread, as I am left with barely enough time to eat and shower. Ooh.
I'll try to drop by from time to time.
Miss you all.
Jeannine
P.s. Please don't think I'm ignoring you if you should post and I don't reply right away. I never know if my computer is going to poop out on me again.
HI Jeanine- boy have I missed a lot on your sitch! Congrats to you and sounds like a great trip! I took time off the BB to supposedly focus- not sure if that makes sense? Anyway, how can I go back to your original sitch? I really would like to see where you have come from- and so happy to see your getting closer! My memory is shot so a little direction back to your sitch at the beginning would be wonderful-thank you! Shay
Pam, It's so nice to talk to you again, dear friend. What's this about people leaving the BB?
Shay, You can access all my old threads by simply going to "2003 Success Stories" by JJ. You'll find that thread right here in our "Piecing" forum. I'm flattered that you are considering reviewing my history.
Sage, How are ya, sweetheart? I can't begin to catch up with everyone. The trip was periodically trying due to my H's nervous nature, and I was sick the first 5 days. All the same, it was terrific.
My H is now back at work at his old workplace where the OW is still employed and working in the same department. So far, things are good though. H comes home at a reasonable hour, and I haven't had enough time to focus on that nasty business.
Yea, I got bugs crawling all through my computers. I'm afraid I'm going to be forced to scrub at least one hard drive.
So far, things are going well between H and me.
The other night, I asked him a series of related questions. One of them was about whether he was still infactuated with OW or not. He said ,"No, not at all", and that he only talks to her when he has to confer on a case, and that it's strictly business. I was comfortable asking questions and he was comfortable answering them. There was a nice easy flow throughout the conversation.
Also, recently, my H approached me to say that he wants to get a tattoo of my likeness on his leg. Being that this is going to be a permenant fixture on his body, I'd say that speaks volumes.
He also said to me, out of the blue, "You are my best friend".
hi jeannine - it is so encouraging to hear the possibility of having a calm review of OW, i hope the day will come for me and my H too. and yes, the tattoo is very encouraging. just wondering what sort of things hold you back these days with H. slowly
