Thanks for welcome Cadet. The main aspect of life post Bomb Drop that I'm enjoying is time with my kids. Spent all Sunday with them. Horse back riding and time with their Grandfather.

W told them Sun AM that she was going to go away for a couple days. That really upset my daughter, she broke down in tears telling her she was so tired of her staying away-spending the nights out or way late. W told them she didn't want to be married to dad too. Wonderful morning. W cried some but left anyway.

I had a great day. Got a freelance project and helped my dad fell a tree. W called me 6 times but I missed the calls and didn't return them. She got home from work crying saying how bad she felt about hurting the kids then went to sleep off last night's late night fun. Apparently not feeling bad enough to come home early instead of sleeping out again, heh.

I never know what the next day will bring. Oh, the joys of separation!


Married 10/4/1996
Me 53 Wife 47 Twin Children Boy and Girl 11
Bomb dropped 9/2013
Living "separated" in same house.