RT, I simply love the self-awareness(as Wonka said) you display and how you remove any reactions coming from you in regards to her baiting. I sincerely hope I can get to this place someday, it seems so powerful!
You demonstrate such capacity for introspection and the ability to recognize yourself separately from her and her emotions. I'm impressed. Keep up the good stuff!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.