@Wonka - you're probably right, and I really am pretty much over it. Awesome Hunger Games reference! I hadn't really talked to W a lot about it. First, I don't care to know any details, and second, she got really grossed out and visibly disturbed if talking about it, so it obviously isn't a pleasant memory. She finally basically did say he was gross, and she hated it because when it happened she literally felt nothing, and the "dead feeling" scared her. Hate it for her, but having that conversation last week helped clear things up.
@NTX - thanks! OM isn't the problem necessarily, but rather I think my fear is more that W is desperate for any guy, no matter how bad he looks.
However, my own fears are really belied by her actions and words. She is more honest and real about our marriage and her own hangups than I ever thought was possible, so I'm not going to ruin a good chance. I guess if she had hooked up with Ryan Gosling, I might be chopped liver!
I hadn't really talked to W a lot about it. First, I don't care to know any details, and second, she got really grossed out and visibly disturbed if talking about it, so it obviously isn't a pleasant memory. She finally basically did say he was gross, and she hated it because when it happened she literally felt nothing, and the "dead feeling" scared her. Hate it for her, but having that conversation last week helped clear things up.
