Being the nice person isn't always fun!

[CallaghanClown]

Struggling......

Just heard a woman's voice in the background when he facetime'd the kids. They didn't hear it, so I didnt have that drama, but I did!

He called back afterwards to ask if I was ok. He didn't know I heard and I hadn't spoken to him on FaceTime......guilty conscience?

I had my cheery voice and said everything was ok, but I was shaken.

Now he's texting to see if I'm ok.

I really want to text back telling him what I heard. I really don't want him doing it again. I've got enough to discuss with the kids, I don't need him to add "who's the girl daddy has there?"

Plus it's his birthday and they don't understand why he doesn't want to be with them for his birthday......nor do I.

I'd be lying if I said this doesn't hurt. He's moved on from just cyber/text relationships to physical. Ouch. Yep it hurts. But this is all mind reading. I don't know who she was, what she was doing, how this relates to him.

So do I ask? Do I stop the mind reading and ask?