Oh, Ang I'm so glad he didn't move out. That can only work in favor of the M. He is putting on his happy face because he is burying feelings he doesn't know how to deal with, so he is trying to make it appear like everything within him is ok. It really isn't yet.

I'm so proud of you for STFU! in a lot of your situations. You can see how it works now when you don't give him any ammo to fight you with. wink I hate to say it, but his bad attitude will resurface so be prepared. You know how to do this. He is an angry angry person inside and he has not learned how to deal with these intense feelings and emotions on his own. When you leave him alone, he HAS to deal with it himself.

Hang in there sweetie, you did so awesome this weekend.


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.